Apr 30 2012

Little of This, Little of That

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 10:20 pm

My chaotic schedule is calming down for a weeks here, so i can catch up on a few things, including telling you lovely readers about the minutia of my life.

Have you ever needed to print something in bulk? In the past i would get my documents ready, print them out, take them to Kinko’s or Office Depot, have a long conversation with the clerk there about what i wanted, leave my order there not quite sure what the end result will look like, and come back the next day to pick it up, with about a 50-50 shot of it not being right. I just found out that i can do it all myself online, on the Kinko’s/FedEx website. I uploaded my documents, customized the print options myself, placed the order. Done. Easy as pie. I love it. Thank you, internet.

Lance planted flowers while i was gone. They are lovely. Now, we don’t really do much gardening or anything, but he wanted to dig in the dirt and make something pretty for me to see when i got home. Mission accomplished, and i love them. So why is the nosy neighbor coming by today to laugh at him and tell him he did it wrong? It makes me upset/angry. Who asked you? Why do you have to make fun of something that gave someone else joy?

I’m finishing reading The Tiger’s Wife by Tea Obreht. I randomly bought this at an airport a month or so ago. It is quite hard to describe, but i have loved it. To call it a story about death is entirely wrong, and yet it is. A beautiful story about searching for answers, and exploring the boundaries between myth and reality. Natalia Stefanovi is a doctor in an unnamed country that has been suffering the effects of a seemingly unending war for generations. Natalia struggles to care for orphans of the war while also trying to unravel the mystery of her recently-deceased grandfather’s past. Weaving through her story is the story of her grandfather’s youth in a village, where he befriended a young deaf-mute girl, abused by her husband. The deaf-mute girl somehow befriended a tiger that had escaped during bombings, and became known as the tiger’s wife. A third thread describes the myth of the deathless man, whom Natalia’s grandfather has encountered a handful of times in his life. The deathless man cannot die himself, but travels around collecting the souls of those who have died and helping them into the afterlife. Natalia has heard her grandfather’s stories and dismissed them as myth, until she encounters the deathless man himself.

Lance and i went with a team of friends to try to qualify for bridge nationals. Made it to the second day with no trouble, and somehow lost in the semifinals. Very close loss, which makes it even worse in a way, b/c you end up beating yourself up for every little thing, because any one decision would have made the difference between winning and losing. Boo. It still stings a bit.

Finally, here is one more picture from Disney, which shows just how terrifying the Tower of Terror was.

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Apr 28 2012

Grownups in Disney World

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 1:11 pm

Kerry and i took our last trip together almost exactly 10 years ago, when we went to New Orleans for a sort of bachelorette weekend. We decided it was high time we took another one, so we decided to go to Orlando a few days before my conference. This trip, there was a lot less drinking, but a lot more roller coasters. I learned that it was super fun to go to Disney as an adult! My last trip there was when i was 6 or 7, over a quarter-century ago.

We went to Epcot, Disney’s Hollywood Studios and Magic Kingdom. Kerry did a lot of research and somehow managed to make sure that we never waited in line. Ever. We essentially walked on to almost every ride. 90-minute waits? Not for us!

Some fun photos:

On the Rockin’ Roller Coaster, we conspired with two small girls to all have the same pose. The pose was their idea, by the way. The little sister got a little scared, we think, but we loved this shot.

The topiaries were amazing. I like this one with the storm clouds in the background.

Here i am wearing Mickey’s magician’s apprentice hat!

We have LOTS more pictures, too, maybe there will be more in future posts.

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Apr 01 2012

I’ve Been Tagged

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 12:44 pm

I think this game is going around the blogosphere, and i thought it was fun reading Ann’s post so i’ll participate. Since the Somethings have sort of died, this will replace them this week.

The Rules

  1. Post these rules
  2. You must post 11 random things about yourself
  3. Answer the questions set for you in the post you were tagged in
  4. Create 11 new questions for your tagees to answer
  5. Tag them on Twitter, Facebook or your blog

11 Random Facts About Me

  1. I’m a nut for puzzle games. Sudoku and Trainyard come to mind immediately.
  2. My car is 11 years old and i hope to keep it 11 more years.
  3. If i don’t have at least one cup of coffee in the morning i get a headache.
  4. I sleep on the right side of the bed, if you’re looking at it.
  5. Snoozing is required in the morning, unless i’m nervous about having to be somewhere.
  6. I love to try things i’ve never done before.
  7. I was a band geek in high school and somewhat regret not continuing it in college.
  8. I can trace my genealogy back to John Alden and Priscilla Mullen of the Mayflower.
  9. I don’t like olives, but i do like dirty martinis.
  10. I don’t wear a lot of jewelry. I have a few items that are special to me, and i wear them because i like them, not because they accessorize my outfit in any way.
  11. I like movies that make me cry. Sometimes a girl needs a good cry.

11 Questions I was Asked to Answer

  1. What is your favorite movie?  Tough one, but i’ll say The Girl Next Door.
  2. If you could go back and give your 16 year old self one piece of advice, what would it be? Oh my, that’s tough. I’ll have to settle for a short list. Don’t quit the swim team, the cool kids won’t matter after high school so stop worrying about it, your parents and brothers will become some of your best friends even though it doesn’t seem like it now, stick up for your brothers more.
  3. Why do you blog? I started when i was trying to hold myself accountable when i began running. It turned into sharing my thoughts on various things. Lately i’ve neglected it, but i’d like to get back into it.
  4. What did you want to be when you grew up? Are you doing that? I wanted to be a lot of things, my earliest memories are of wanting to be a writer. Not doing that, though i do try to do it for fun through blogging and writing bridge columns.
  5. M&M’s – plain or peanut? Peanut!!
  6. What was your first car? 1979 Datsun pick-up truck. Boy was it a clunker. Great car, though, lots of personality. For example, it would backfire, loudly, whenever you turned it off. I got to school an hour early every day so there wouldn’t be many kids in the parking lot to hear it.
  7. What is your favorite Halloween costume you’ve ever worn?  You know, i can’t even remember any of my costumes except for the ghost made out of a sheet with two eye holes.
  8. What are your favorite blogs to read? Brazen Careerist and the blogs of friends and family.
  9. If you were to have a boy and a girl tomorrow, what would you name them? It would have to be Scarlet and Gray.
  10. What was your favorite class in college? Personal Finance. I know it sounds lame, but the teacher was really dynamic, irreverent and just plain good and i learned a lot of practical stuff.
  11. What celebrity do you think it would be fun to be friends with? Jon Stewart.

11 Questions for You to Answer

  1. What’s your earliest childhood memory?
  2. What place would you most like to visit?
  3. What’s the scariest thing you have ever done?
  4. When was the last time you got a giggle fit and what caused it?
  5. How many cars have you owned?
  6. Who were your childhood heroes?
  7. What was your favorite game as a child?
  8. What book have you read that had a profound impact on you?
  9. If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do?
  10. Who was your favorite teacher and why?
  11. What is the thing you like best about yourself?

Now, I’m tagging:

Nathan at Nate’s Davar

Cindy at My $.02

Kerry at Kerry and Gabe (Ann tagged her too, but she can answer more questions)

Robert at Soaking Up The World

I’d also love to hear responses from anyone else who reads but doesn’t blog. Moms?

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Mar 01 2012

It’s a Beautiful Day

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 3:58 pm

What a gorgeous day here in North Carolina. March 1 is not supposed to be 75 degrees and sunny with a perfect breeze. And yet, here we are. Cue one of my favorite songs by U2.

Our big group went to lunch today, and there was a caravan of cars making the 20 minute drive. Windows down, chillin with the radio on, sun shining… I felt like i was in a verse of Hot Chelle Rae’s hit song. Like that.

My doctor told me i am Vitamin D deficient, and prescribed me a 6-week regimen of super-mega-doses to be taken once per week. I think the medical industry is on a vitamin D kick, b/c i know of another friend who got the same prescription, and we go to different doctors. My doc also told me that virtually everyone she sees is deficient. We just don’t get outside enough, and there’s no other good source of D other than the sun.

As an aside, isn’t it friggin’ COOL that our bodies respond to the sun chemically to produce vitamins? It’s the human version of photosynthesis. We actually NEED sunlight.

If every day was like today though, none of us would have any problems. Absolutely gorgeous.

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Feb 14 2012

Happenings and Want-To-Be-Doings

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 2:56 pm

Things i want to do but can’t find the time to get to:

  • Work on my 2011 photo album. Usually i have it ready by Christmas. Now it’s Valentine’s Day. What a great gift that would have been. Oops.
  • There are about 15 books on my want-to-read list. Between book club, self-improvement, and pleasure (sometimes they intersect, but sometimes not), i can’t get to them all.
  • Move the clean laundry out of the baskets where it is half-folded into the drawers/closets
  • Blog – this blog is so neglected.
  • Exercise – though i vow this will change and may re-look into Weight Watchers

Things that are making life feel chaotic:

  • I got elected president of my bridge club. It was a contentious election, and now feelings are hurt. No one wants to cooperate, answer emails or do their part to help transition roles.
  • We are also in a planning stage at work, which seems to mean that we have to figure out now what the entire year will look like.
  • A passive-aggressive dispute with someone at work who will not contact me directly, for some reason.
  • A bridge tournament this weekend and business in the evenings this week means very little time to catch up on anything.
  • General anxiety about a few other upcoming things.

Things that make it all worthwhile:

  • Getting postcards in the mail from Lance while he was at the Hilton Head tournament. Each postcard had a fun story from one of the bridge hands they played.
  • Valentine’s Day breakfast.
  • Bidding practice with Mom and watching her get everything right by the time it was over.
  • Getting to the end of The Legend of Zelda: Skyward Sword. Fabulous game. It only took us 2.5 months of playing mostly on weekends.
  • Watching Nugent play at the dog park. Those dogs are all hysterical. It may be time to get another puppy.

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Feb 03 2012

Immersed in Culture

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 6:35 pm

We have two coworkers from China visiting at work this week, and i’m their primary host. It’s been a whirlwind week, and while i personally haven’t gotten much done, it’s been rewarding to see them making connections with others.

One of our guests who i’ll call D has visited the US twice before, but the other is experiencing American culture for the first time. So far he’s taken everything in stride.

One of the topics that hasn’t yet run out of discussion points is how American and Chinese culture differ. Here are some things i have learned.

  • There is no drinking age in China. D was absolutely flabbergasted when i told him our drinking age was 21. He asked if you also had to be 21 to be in the military. When i said no, that’s only 18, he just shook his head in disbelief.
  • There is no blood-alcohol level in China that is allowed when driving. Any alcohol in your system will get you taken to jail. The US allows a blood alcohol content of .08%.
  • D noticed that in the cafeteria, everyone puts ice into their drinks all the time. This is not done in China. And in fact, beer is served warm or lukewarm as well. The thought of warm beer got a wrinkled nose from me, and he just laughed.
  • There was a dancing & karaoke night for our division earlier this week. A few people sang, but not many. D asked why not? I don’t know, i guess in general Americans are shy. He said that karaoke is extremely popular in China, and there would be a line for the karaoke machine. It’s so popular that many places charge money to those who want to sing.
  • Most families in China have one child. I asked how the government enforces that and learned that the second child has no right to public schooling or certain identification documents. Also there are fines. Wikipedia tells me that the rule actually does not apply to everyone, but D tells me most people abide by it anyway.
  • Children in Chinese families do not have such things as sleepovers. I had read some of this in Amy Chua’s book, but D reinforced it for me. He played the clarinet as a child, and practiced four hours per day.
  • Michael Jackson is very popular in China. At the dance party, D’s face lit up whenever one of his songs was played.
  • The city of Beijing has terrible air pollution and no blue sky.
  • D was amazed at how many people have cars. In China, a family may have at most one car, and only rich families have multiple cars. I told him i had a household of two people, and we each had our own car, and that this was normal in America.
  • The subways are very crowded. D rides the subway for a 90-minute commute to work each day. He says it is too crowded even to play a handheld game like a 3DS.
  • The NBA is very popular in China. They were surprised i knew nothing about the NBA. I told them a lot of people like college basketball but not the NBA, and their only response is “Why?” I couldn’t really answer it.
  • Despite working for a great software company and having good technical skills, D says he is not “middle class” for Beijing. Maybe for the overall China population, but Beijing is a very rich city, and only rich people live there. He lives way outside the city, and feels generally lower class when in Beijing. I told him that pretty much everyone in America thinks of themselves as middle class.
  • It is illegal to build anymore golf courses in China because of the land it requires to build one. And only very rich people play golf.
  • Chinese people do not like many sweets. Well, at least not the adults. We had cake one afternoon in a meeting. Fairly boring-but-decent cake. They could not eat it because it was so sweet to them.
  • Their impression is that Americans like candy and we are all very fat.

It was pretty fascinating to have them here and to learn from them. I was glad they were willing to talk about the differences in culture and were just as interested in American culture as i was in Chinese culture. I had been worried about offending them all week, but luckily that was not an issue with these two. I hope to get to visit them later this year and experience the culture myself.

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Dec 11 2011

Today Is Sunday

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 8:59 pm

Today is Sunday, and the Somethings are due and overdue, but the typical format just doesn’t cover all the things i want to highlight. So here are some thoughts.

  • Our trip to Alaska was totally rad! It was awesome to see Nathan and Heather in their natural habitat.
  • Alaska is far. Twelve hours in the air. When i told people we were going to Alaska, i got quite a few people asking us if we would be driving from Seattle to Anchorage. It’s easy to forget just how far away it is. It is about the same distance from Seattle to Anchorage as it is from Raleigh to Seattle.
  • Alaskans know a lot more about how to survive in the snow than we do. They all have engine block heaters installed in their cars so they can plug their cars in. All the parking lots have these chargers so they can plug their cars in.
  • We took a fair number of pictures, but i’m still sorting them out and trying to get them uploaded. The one below is me standing in front of a frozen lake. We walked on it. How neat is that?
  • Our 4 days in Seattle were fun as well. We played a 3-day event for players with 0-5000 masterpoints and finished 14th of 112. Not too bad. It was a bit disappointing because we were leading, by some, after the first five sessions, but just had nothing good happen to us in the last session. There wasn’t that much we could have done, and we just watched our win slip away.
  • Lance and i can host a damn good bridge party. We had three tables here the other night, which was a pretty full house. Nugent hid upstairs all night, and the adults all had a good time playing bridge and Taboo.
  • We learned a new game thanks to Nathan & Heather- Dominion. A very good game, and i predict more of it in our future.
  • Nugent seemed a bit sullen when we got back. Perhaps he didn’t like being left behind. We’re taking him with us when we go to Ohio in a few weeks.
  • I had 800+ emails waiting for me when i got back after 11 days of not checking at all. I was pretty stressed out all week, but i finally feel caught up.
  • I’ve seen Breaking Dawn twice now! The first time with Heather, as we have seen all the movies together so far. And the second time this weekend with another friend. (I learned that if you stay through to the end of the credits, there is a teaser for the next movie! I missed that the first time!) It was so fun.
  • Glad to be home. December us a busy month (and it’s already nearly half over).

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Oct 26 2011

Shaggin’

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 11:39 pm

Last weekend, Lance and i joined some friends in Morehead City, NC for a sectional bridge tournament. I was telling one of my friends at work about it; how we were going to the beach, going to play bridge all weekend, and there was an opportunity to go shag dancing as well. My friend laughed and said, “What are you, 60 years old and retired?” Well, i’m not, but everyone else i was hanging out with is 60+. I started referring to it as my retired weekend. And i liked it!

I took a shag lesson several years ago and learned the basic steps. This was my first opportunity to go to a real shag club, though. The place was called Memories. Our group of six arrived just after 9 pm on a Saturday night, and the place was packed. I was the youngest person there by about 30 years. Everyone was having a blast, it seemed. I was SO excited to be there, and i loved watching the people dance. It was a bit intimidating – the dance floor was about 30×40 and was surrounded by a waist-high wall, and everyone was gathered around watching. So getting out there was really like being in the center of attention.

We watched for awhile. I was so entranced by all these couples dancing. I thought it was so sweet that all these older couples were out dancing together! And then i began talking to some of them; everyone was very friendly. I asked the first couple “How long have you been married?” “Oh – we’re not married!” After that i revised my question. “Are you married?” “Oh, no.” Not one person i talked to was there with a spouse. A few were actually couples who were in the early months of a relationship, but many were singles. That makes sense upon reflection, but it sure put a damper on my romantic idea of long-married couples out shagging together.

Our escort for the evening danced with each of the ladies in turn. It was SO FUN. I’m sure i was doing it wrong, but i didn’t care. And that’s the point of dancing, to have fun.

I enjoyed my retired weekend. The beach was beautiful, the bridge was interesting and the shagging was wonderful.

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Aug 02 2011

Tuesday

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 7:48 pm

Somehow it’s Tuesday, and i missed the Somethings this week. Oh well. Here are some random thoughts and goings-on in my life.

I’m reading Snowflower and the Secret Fan by Lara Lee. I’m not very far, but it’s already pretty fascinating. It’s about girls growing up in 19th century China. The footbinding process is described in detail. Wow, i had no idea. Quiz: what is the ideal foot size to achieve? Answer: 7 cm. Yes, that was CENTIMETERS. 1 in 10 girls died in the process due to blood poisoning associated with walking on bound feet in order for the girls to break their toes. Ouch.

Had a wonderful visit this weekend with Lance’s parents, who came Friday and left Monday. We had people over and had an IMP night (bridge); went to Moe’s, which was on Mom’s list; did birthday stuff (cool gift, an actual stadium seat from the old Fulton County Stadium!); went to a Mudcats game (cold ice cream cones on a hot summer night are superb); went to see Crazy, Stupid, Love (very cute); and just had an all around good time visiting.

Today i sent Lance to the Farmer’s Market to buy fruit and vegetables sufficient for 3 days of juicing. This is our latest food fad we’re trying. Two weeks ago we watched a documentary called Fat, Sick and Nearly Dead. Pretty fascinating. The show followed two guys doing a “juice fast” for 60 days. This means making your own juice and not consuming anything else, besides water. We’re not quite dedicated enough, or crazy enough, to go for 60 days. Neither are we as overweight as those guys were. So we’re going to try it for 10 days. Or at least 3 days, since that’s how much food we have on hand. I’ve done a fair amount of research; i hope it’s good enough. Optimistic result: try something new (i’m a sucker for new things), lose a few pounds, jump-start some healthier eating habits, introduce fresh juices into the diet on a semi-regular basis. More Likely Result: be hungry, lose some weight, gain it all back when it’s over.

I’m gearing up for a job change at work. It’s been in the making for some time, as i’ve been doing most of the work for several months. But the steps are being taken now and it will be official soon. I’m going to be managing my group of four people at work. It’s been six people for the summer, but when our two summer students go back to school things should get easier. I’m excited/nervous at the prospect.

Birthdays are over – Lance and i have birthdays a week apart. I planned to and never did blog about my perfect birthday weekend, but it was awesome. Friday off + new clothes + they-sure-do-give-out-good-babies-in-??-IL + bridge + weekend with friends + a day with my honey. I am once again the product of two primes (11×3), but in truth, i’ve always been the product of two primes (MomxDad). [Cue - "Awwww"]

Congress approved raising the debt ceiling today. At the last minute. I don’t think either side is happy, but everyone is putting a positive spin on it. At least the drama is over.

Lance started an awesome program today teaching bridge to home schoolers. Two hours blocks, twice per week. The first session went very well, according to my inside source. I’m excited for him; he’s a natural teacher, and this opportunity combines two of his passions.

Life is fun.

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Jul 30 2011

Shock

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 8:19 am

Monday night, i got home at 7 and had an hour with Lance before he went out to a home poker game, about a half mile from where we live. The host is a friend who has had a weekly home game at his house for a few months now. Since online poker went bust, Lance has played live more often, averaging once or twice per week. Sometimes i go with him, but it had been a long day and i wanted to get some sleep.

I went to bed early as planned and knew nothing until 6 am when Lance came home and woke me up. “Hi hon, i’m home. I saw someone murdered tonight.”

Confused and still half-asleep, my brilliant response was, “Murder? What kind of murder?”

“The kind where someone gets shot.”

Near midnight, two men entered the home where the game was held, wearing masks and brandishing guns, with intent to rob the place. The men were apprehended by one or more of the players at the table, and both would-be robbers were shot. One fatally.

Known details are available at the following news sites:
http://www.wral.com/news/local/story/9910477/
http://abclocal.go.com/wtvd/story?section=news/local&id=8272194
http://www.newsobserver.com/2011/07/26/1371260/2-robbery-suspects-shot-during.html

You might think that we may have more details than are described in those stories, seeing as how Lance was there, sitting at the table, and watched the whole thing unfold. But we don’t. Lance’s account is very muddled.  He describes a numbness, an inability to process what was happening. He has no memories of certain parts of the night. Hearing him describe it, he had some classic symptoms of shock.

And no wonder. Five gunshots were fired; a man was shot to death across the room from him. One of the news sites indicates that the robber was shot with his own gun. If true, there must have been some kind of struggle to get the gun away. I’m sure it was terrifying. In a situation like that, anything can happen.

I have immense relief that he is OK. What a scare. Even though i never knew anything until hours after it was over, the threat of the possibility that he would have been hurt is paralyzing.

Lance and the other people in the house spent several hours talking with police, and allowed to go home. None of the players were in trouble; they were trying to determine what had happened with the shooting. An investigation is still ongoing.

I worked from home Tuesday so Lance would not be left alone in that state. Throughout the day he talked through it some more, with me and with others in the poker community. He’s OK now, i think, and we’re glad to know that none of our friends were injured.

It’s terrible that someone was killed. But i have little sympathy.

The robbers have been identified, and no one that we’ve talked to knew them. I guess word about poker games gets around, though, and they found out about it. However, they clearly had no idea how these home games operate. Players play for real money, yes. A common buy-in is $200 per person, some a little more, some a little less.  But there is no actual money on the table, only chips. The money isn’t even in the same room. So it can’t be a quick smash-and-grab job; you have to know where the money is, and it will not be in the room where the ‘action’ is.

A couple of the news sites are claiming this is a “high stakes” game, but that is just media sensationalism. The blinds on each hand are $1-$2 and never increase. Last time i played i lost $200. The two times before that i won $100. To put this in perspective, there is a High Stakes Poker show on TV where the average buy-in is $200,000 and pots routinely get large enough to pay off our house in one stroke. That is high stakes. This game is medium stakes at best, and is considered low stakes by most.

I waited a few days to post in case the police called back; i didn’t want to say anything to get Lance or anyone else in trouble. But i’m not posting anything here that isn’t common knowledge.

Scary stuff.

Lance is now fine. He didn’t sleep well for a couple of nights, but i think he’s back to almost normal now.

Lance, i’m glad you’re safe. And happy birthday!

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