Nov 19 2011

Mantra

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 11:25 am

A few weeks ago, i bought a $25 Groupon worth $50 at Mantra, a new restaurant in downtown Raleigh. At least, i think it’s new. I jumped on it, thinking it would be a perfect opportunity to dine with our friends K & P who are our Indian restaurant friends. They have helped us get acclimated to the menus and learn what was good.

The Groupon expired at the end of November, so we needed to make a date, and everything kept falling through. Last night, after our date fell through again, Lance and i decided we had enough vocabulary to order by ourselves and that we would just go and pig out by ourselves.

When we arrived at 7:30 we had an slightly bizarre exchange with the hostess. It started normally. She greeted us with, “Good evening, how are you?” And i said “We’re fine, how are you?” And she just looked at me expectantly. There was an awkward silence. I quickly analyzed the exchange in my head and concluded it was just barely possible i had accidentally spoken in another language, so i repeated myself in English, “We’re fine, how are you.” She looks at me like i have two heads and then remembers her line, “Do you have a reservation?” I glance sideways at all the empty tables as i reply in the negative. She then says, “OK, i just have to go check something. I’ll be right back.”

The place was not empty; maybe 60% full. We had arrived at 7:30, which on Friday night at Olive Garden means a 1-hour wait.

She returns with the news that “we just gave away our last walk-in table, but you could sit either at the bar our outside where there’s a heater.” We had seen the outside section on the way in, draped with plastic lining. We opted for the outside option. I kept my coat on.

The food was amazing. We ordered Tandoori Paneer Tikka as our appetizer, which was spicy and good. Kulcha, which is Naan stuffed with cheese and potatoes – very good. The entrees we shared were to die for: Murgh Tikka Masala and Daal Mantra. We always love whatever we order at Indian restaurants. Lance vows to become an Indian chef.

The atmosphere was nice – the music seemed authentic. It was a bit chilly outside, and my feet  especially were pretty cold by the time we left. But the outside seating was acceptable.

Lance commented that this definitely felt like a new restaurant. They did not have all their logistics worked out. For example, when we were being led to our seats, we almost ran into 3 different servers. It makes me think that seasoned restaurants must have a path down which they lead patrons, and the servers avoid the main path. Also, we had issues getting plates for our appetizers, and a table next to us couldn’t get an extra roll of silverware. They just seemed disorganized. Thirdly, the service was pretty slow. We waited noticeably longer for each course, and 10+ minutes just to get the check after we’d requested it.

Finally, i was turned off by the bill. They added 18% gratuity automatically, but did not really point it out very well. I HATE that. They present you with a bill where the server has already been compensated, but it still has the same 3 lines for you to fill in for Tip, Total and Signature. Some restaurants do this right, and label the tip line as “Add’l Tip” to at least clue you in. How many people double-tip in this situation? I would argue a LOT. I generally always tip 20% but i assume that you are giving up your 2% upside when you want to guarantee no one tips only 10%. If i had truly exceptional service, i suppose i might add additional tip, but i haven’t experienced that combination quite yet. That left a sour taste in my mouth – it just reeks to me of a general distrust of your customer. Maybe it’s warranted in a lot of situations, but i don’t like it.

Overall, i would say the food was tremendously good, but the service was below average. I liked it, but i will wait to return until they’ve had time to get things running a bit more smoothly.

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Aug 04 2011

Coconut Water

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 2:49 pm

We’ve been doing the juicing for one and a half days now. No cheating by either of us. (Though today in particular the snacks in the break room at work have been calling to me.)

Yesterday, Day 1, was a terrible day for me. I had a headache for most of the afternoon and evening, which was probably caffeine withdrawal. All day long, my “flora and fauna” were distressed, and i made many trips to the bathroom, and many uncomfortable chuckles as my gurgle-y stomach made itself known to others.

The diet consists of 4 main ‘meal’ juices during the day, 2-3 containers of coconut water, and as much regular water as you want.

I actually have not been hungry. There is plenty of volume and calories in the juices. It’s a little weird not to eat or chew anything, but overall i’m not wishing for more food. What i’m wishing for is better food. These juices are not that great. They’re not that bad either; even the one that kind of tasted like grass wasn’t that bad. But they’re not that great. Last night, after a day of mediocre juice combined with the flora and fauna issues i was having, i was not looking forward to another day.

We got up and did it, though. Lance found the vegetables in the fridge (i didn’t know what fennel looked like)(by the way, fennel is licorice)(i don’t like licorice), and cut them small enough to be fed into the juicer, and we made the day’s first three juices (breakfast, mid-morning, early afternoon). The juicer is messy messy messy. Fairly easy to clean, i guess. But a lot of work – probably about an hour to get our first 3 meals ready.

As indifferent as i am to the juices, the worst of the worst is the coconut water. Vomit in my mouth. We got the best-selling brand as it happens, so it’s not like we have some obscure drink that would be fixed if we just found the right kind. It’s just nasty. I quickly learned that holding my nose works. Needless to say, i do not recommend this stuff, despite the supposed healthful properties and electrolytes it conveys.

We bought enough of the coconut water to last 3 days, and by golly we’re sticking this out for 3 days at least. Although i will say, if we go beyond 3 days, we are not buying anymore of that drek. Regular water will probably work just as well.

I had heard that the first couple of days might be bad, but at some point you’re supposed to start feeling really good. I’m hoping we get there, because otherwise i doubt i’ll have the motivation to continue.

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Aug 02 2011

Tuesday

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 7:48 pm

Somehow it’s Tuesday, and i missed the Somethings this week. Oh well. Here are some random thoughts and goings-on in my life.

I’m reading Snowflower and the Secret Fan by Lara Lee. I’m not very far, but it’s already pretty fascinating. It’s about girls growing up in 19th century China. The footbinding process is described in detail. Wow, i had no idea. Quiz: what is the ideal foot size to achieve? Answer: 7 cm. Yes, that was CENTIMETERS. 1 in 10 girls died in the process due to blood poisoning associated with walking on bound feet in order for the girls to break their toes. Ouch.

Had a wonderful visit this weekend with Lance’s parents, who came Friday and left Monday. We had people over and had an IMP night (bridge); went to Moe’s, which was on Mom’s list; did birthday stuff (cool gift, an actual stadium seat from the old Fulton County Stadium!); went to a Mudcats game (cold ice cream cones on a hot summer night are superb); went to see Crazy, Stupid, Love (very cute); and just had an all around good time visiting.

Today i sent Lance to the Farmer’s Market to buy fruit and vegetables sufficient for 3 days of juicing. This is our latest food fad we’re trying. Two weeks ago we watched a documentary called Fat, Sick and Nearly Dead. Pretty fascinating. The show followed two guys doing a “juice fast” for 60 days. This means making your own juice and not consuming anything else, besides water. We’re not quite dedicated enough, or crazy enough, to go for 60 days. Neither are we as overweight as those guys were. So we’re going to try it for 10 days. Or at least 3 days, since that’s how much food we have on hand. I’ve done a fair amount of research; i hope it’s good enough. Optimistic result: try something new (i’m a sucker for new things), lose a few pounds, jump-start some healthier eating habits, introduce fresh juices into the diet on a semi-regular basis. More Likely Result: be hungry, lose some weight, gain it all back when it’s over.

I’m gearing up for a job change at work. It’s been in the making for some time, as i’ve been doing most of the work for several months. But the steps are being taken now and it will be official soon. I’m going to be managing my group of four people at work. It’s been six people for the summer, but when our two summer students go back to school things should get easier. I’m excited/nervous at the prospect.

Birthdays are over – Lance and i have birthdays a week apart. I planned to and never did blog about my perfect birthday weekend, but it was awesome. Friday off + new clothes + they-sure-do-give-out-good-babies-in-??-IL + bridge + weekend with friends + a day with my honey. I am once again the product of two primes (11×3), but in truth, i’ve always been the product of two primes (MomxDad). [Cue - "Awwww"]

Congress approved raising the debt ceiling today. At the last minute. I don’t think either side is happy, but everyone is putting a positive spin on it. At least the drama is over.

Lance started an awesome program today teaching bridge to home schoolers. Two hours blocks, twice per week. The first session went very well, according to my inside source. I’m excited for him; he’s a natural teacher, and this opportunity combines two of his passions.

Life is fun.

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Nov 23 2010

Oven Shortage

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 12:24 pm

Last night i went shopping for all the ingredients i need for the Thanksgiving feast.  I planned from the beginning to have leftovers for days, however things seem to have gotten a bit out of hand with my menu.  I’m not quite sure how one cooks all these things with only one oven.  Actually, more like half an oven, since the bird will take up an entire rack by itself.  But I’m determined to figure it out.

Nonetheless, i am very excited about making all this food.  (And of course getting to eat it.)  And very thankful that i have the means to do so and people to share it with.

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Apr 16 2009

Halfway Through 15K Training

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 6:35 pm

It’s been just over 5 weeks since i started training for the Biltmore/Kiwanis 15K in mid-May.  I made it halfway through the training program – i’m now keeping track of my progress using Google Spreadsheets, if anyone is interested.  I have taken a lot more days of “Rest” than are scheduled, but hey, that’s OK. (-:  I’m proud of what i am doing, and i can tell i’m getting stronger.

The race is now closed with a waiting list, so i’m glad i signed up early.  It makes me feel special somehow.

For the last month i have been eating pretty well, and of course exercising.  And i’ve felt great!.  It amazing me how much my body is affected by what i eat.  For example, the last 3-4 days, i haven’t eaten much in the way of greens.  And i had one guilty pleasure fast food meal.  And i can tell – my body is dragging a bit and i have less energy.

This is the dangerous part.  First, it gets hard to keep up with going to the grocery store and preparing healthy meals.  Then, i get lazy and start getting fast food.  Next, i feel like shit and skip a few workouts.  Finally, before i realize it, i’m not training anymore.  I’m in a rut that’s hard to get out of.  And it all starts with what i put into my body.

That’s where i am, i can feel it happening.  It happens to me every time, around 4-5 weeks into at attempted change of lifestyle.  This is where everything falls apart.  I’m trying like hell to get back on top of things, to avoid the collapse.  I have a few things in place to help keep me on track.  For example, we’re getting fresh produce each week directly from local farms via The Produce Box.  Having fresh vegetables on hand certainly helps some.  And i have to think that recognizing what is happening is a big deal, too.  Ultimately though, it’s about motivation.  That’s what i’m trying to hang on to.

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Jan 12 2009

May I Have a Sip?

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 8:00 am

Friday night we went out to celebrate a friend’s birthday.  The setting was the Bloomsbury Bistro in the Five Points area downtown.  It is an oft-chosen site for birthday celebrations among this crowd.  My first few times i had a hard time finding something on the menu that i liked.  But when i learned you could order “off-menu” and get the bar steak, it quickly became a favorite location for me too.  That steak is absolutely delicious.

So we’re having a big time with a fairly large group of ten people.  It’s dessert time, and i order their Orange Muscat dessert wine.  Someone makes a comment about how sweet that type of wine is, and I ask Lance to try it, figuring he won’t like it.  I’m right; he doesn’t.  He makes a yick face and everyone laughs.

I also offer it to the birthday girl.  She’s a good friend, and she seems interested in trying it.  Quick note about me: i am not a germaphobe.  I don’t like to share with people who are sick, for the obvious reasons.  Or small children, b/c too often backwashed food bits somehow end up floating in your soda.  But other than that, if i know you just moderately well, you’re welcome to taste my wine or try food off my plate.

So anyway, the birthday girl, whom i know to be healthy and who is many many years away from her small child years, tries the wine.  She makes the same face Lance did, and everyone laughs again.  In the midst of this, another celebrant, we’ll call her Bronchia, takes the wine from birthday girl, glances at me and says “I love this stuff.  Do you mind if i take a sip?”

I automatically say yes, but a few moments later (after i have already ingested more of the wine), i recall that Bronchia had been telling us earlier about her bronchitis.  Which she saw the doctor for a mere two days ago and received medication.  Now, she’s not coughing, or hoarse, or really displaying any obvious symptoms, but still.  But she has freaking bronchitis.

What kind of person knowingly does this?  Seriously, you have bronchitis, and you’re going to subject me to your germs in a way that is completely unnecessary?  If i were sick and someone offered me a taste of something, i would say no thank you, i have been sick.  And i certainly wouldn’t proactively try to get my germs on someone else’s glass.

I’m sure it wasn’t intentional, but it was certainly very thoughtless.  I should probably let it drop, but it’s made me kind of angry.  Possibly because Bronchia would be the type to be extremely appalled should someone else exhibit that same thoughtless behavior toward her.

If i get bronchitis, i will be seriously pissed.

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Dec 16 2007

An

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 9:22 am

An (with a squiggly above the a, but i can’t figure out how to make myspace do it), is a new restaurant on Harrison Avenue in Cary. They call it Asian fushion, Eastern food prepared in the French style. They also have an extensive sushi bar.

My small group at work had our holiday celebration at An last week. I had heard great things about the place, but wasn’t sure what to expect.

The architecture was interesting. Something about the decorating really drew attention to the crisp squareness of the place. All the tables were big and square. It was open and airy though. Crowded, but with enough room to navigate easily around the tables. I found my group way in the back corner.

There were 12 of us for lunch, and my manager ordered three sampler appetizers, which were huge and meant for large groups to share. The platters came with a tiny fishbowl in the middle, with an actual fish swimming around in there. Nice touch, but kind of weird.

The platters each had lots of weird sushi items on them. I am not a sushi person. I have tried it two other times, pressured by friends who insisted i would like it. Never much cared for it. Cooked, hot seafood i can handle. Not the cold and/or raw kind. But here i was, and it seemed sushi was once again being pushed. Well, why not. We had three vegetarians in the group, plus one other who refused to try it, so there was plenty to go around for the other 8 of us.

I first tried the spring roll and small crab cake, which are both inside my comfort zone. Both were good. I then went for something that looked like shrimp – it was pink like cooked shrimp. I tried it and it was amazing. Later i found out it was squid. Good thing i didn’t know that, or i would never have tried it. As it was, i went back for more. I also REALLY liked the two sashimi tuna samples. In fact, i think i liked everything i tried from that platter.

The lesson here is that it must be a truly excellent sushi restaurant, simply because i liked it, where i have never liked sushi before. I can’t critique it intelligently – that’s all i can say.

I ordered the Bento Box for my entree. The spicy crab soup that came before my box was delicious. The curry beef tenderloin was the feature of the Bento Box, and it was also very good. The rest was not remarkable – salas, rice, veggies, spring rolls.

Overall, i was very pleased with my experience. The service was excellent. A couple of us did have a weird experience where our water glasses began to smell like fish or rotten eggs after a few glasses. Not sure why that would happen, but we had to ask for new glasses.

Anyway, give it a try, especially if you like seafood and/or sushi.

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Nov 25 2007

San Francisco, Days 2 & 3

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 9:29 am

Friday we slept in and then walked around downtown until we found a place to eat. We found a place called ‘Wich Craft which was pretty cute. They used the apostrophe as their logo. Very good lemonade.

We then went back to the tournament playing site and entered the Life Master Pairs event. It’s one of the “premier” events held at national tournaments, and winning this actually means something. Lots and lots of good players, many of whom are professional bridge players, entered this event. It’s four sessions long, spanning over two days, so you have to string four good games of bridge together. 360 pairs, total. Half are eliminated after the first day.

Well, we had a great start – our first two sessions placed us 25th going into the second day! A very respectable showing, and when we went to bed, we were hopeful that we would be able to finish strong, maybe again in the top 25.

Saturday morning we got up and found a traditional breakfast place called Mel’s Drive-In. It has a cute 50s theme with a jukebox that was playing fun old songs all the time. It was very crowded, so we accepted a place at the counter. The orange-juice i ordered was freshly squeezed – it was so good. I have had the freshly squeezed stuff before, but the oranges they squeezed this particular juice out of must have been super perfectly ripe, because i have never had orange juice that tasted more like a delicious orange.

Back at the playing site, we started sessions 3 & 4. Unfortunately, we didn’t do as well. We made a few mistakes, but most of it was just bad luck. In the wrong place at the wrong time, and the opponents were in the right place at the right times. So, the dream of doing well in a big premier event vanished. But we had fun. We played against several people who have written bridge books that we own – pretty neat.

I’m slowly adjusting to west coast time – still pretty tired at night as it gets past my biological bedtime. I hear that the adjustment back to east coast time is harder.

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Sep 12 2007

Healthy eating

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 10:00 am

I’m trying to eat better.  Today i didn’t have time to go home so I went to Chic-Fil-A.  Nothing there is really healthy, but their grilled chicken sandwiches aren’t so bad.  When i got inside, though, i decided what i REALLY wanted was one of their original sandwiches, they’re so much tastier!  But so much worse for you.  So, to compensate, i ordered the value meal that comes with coleslaw.  That’s healthy, right?

Ha.  Coleslaw isn’t healthy.  Bits of lettuce doesn’t make it healthy.  And what kind of thinking is this anyway?  Chicken sandwich meal plus slaw is MORE calories than just the chicken sandwich meal.

But this is how i rationalize ordering what i actually want.

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