Apr 27 2011

GOT Episodes 1 & 2

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 6:07 pm

I love love love HBO’s new show Game of Thrones.  I just want to smooch it.

First off, this is HBO.  There is lots of adult content, profanity, nudity, sex, violence.  If this is not your cup of tea, no need for you to watch the show and you probably won’t be too interested in hearing me talk about it.

I’ve watched the first episode maybe three or four times and the second episode twice.  It’s good.  Very true to the story told in the books, and i love seeing the characters come to life!  There are other places where the basic plot is recounted scene by scene (great summaries if you haven’t been watching), so i’ll skip that part and go straight to my thoughts on it.

The Wall is immense.  Breathtaking.  The first scene is appropriately scary and other-worldly.  We are introduced to the Others White Walkers.  (LOST stole the term Others, i guess. Too bad because now the characters can’t say “The Others take you!” when cursing someone else.) The Walkers don’t appear quite as i imagined them, but they were scary enough.  After the first scenes, there aren’t any further fantastical elements in the series, at least not so far.  The White Walkers are referenced as having been “gone for thousands of years” but no one seems to take this threat seriously, as there are other more pressing concerns for the realm.

The casting is superb.  King Robert and Illyrio are not nearly as fat as they are supposed to be, but everyone else is pretty much spot on.  They did a great job with family resemblances, which are so important to the storyline.  Joffrey is the slimy little turd that you love to hate.  Cersei is perfect in her absolute evilness and ambition for power. And Viserys totally gives me the creeps.  But Peter Dinklage as Tyrion is the one who truly steals the show.  He’s perfect, portraying the many sides of Tyrion the dwarf already in just two episodes and limited screen time – the drunk lecher, the loving uncle, the scheming politician

The wolf pups are not as present as they are in the books.  They are there, and boy are they cute, but their scenes are a little awkward sometimes.  It’s hard to work with animals, though.

In the first episode, Dany is sold into marriage to the savage Drogo, and at first i was dismayed that their initial encounters were so, well, barbaric.  But it becomes clear in the second episode that they are in fact going to grow that relationship into something real, and i like how the directors have handled that story arc.

My least favorite line is when King Robert says “There’s a war coming, Ned.  I don’t know when, and i don’t know who we’ll be fighting, but it’s coming.”  How ridiculous.  How can you know a war is coming if you have no inkling of who your enemies will be?  Surely you have to have some idea about enemies of the state to make a proclamation like that.

Overall, it’s fabulous.  Can’t wait to see the next episode, where the intrigues get thick down in King’s Landing.

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Apr 24 2011

Sunday Somethings, 24Apr11

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 10:31 pm

Others writing the Sunday Somethings: Kerry

Something that makes me happy: Spending time with family.

Something sad: My great-grandmother passed away this week at the age of 103 years young.  She was a great lady and had a wonderful life.  I am lucky to have known her.

Something tasty: Mom’s homemade Hungarian Coffee Cake.  Especially good when you are “hungary”.

Something from the bridge table: Lots of practicing lately, knocking the rust off and hoping to play our best this weekend.

Something i am reading: Winterdance: The Fine Madness of Running the Iditarod, by Gary Paulsen.

Something happening around the house: New paint on the walls, but we still have crap absolutely everywhere b/c it’s not yet complete.  Hopefully tomorrow it will all be done and we can reclaim our kitchen and living room.

Something i am thinking: I have been in love with the idea of the Iditarod lately, maybe even toying with the idea of trying it myself one day if i could ever have the luxury of time and money.  But reading this book… perhaps not.  It sounds sooo difficult, primarily b/c the mushers apparently have little to no control over the dogs.

Something i am looking forward to: A zip line adventure at The Beanstalk Journey in Morganton.

Something i am hoping: To qualify for nationals at this weekend’s Grand National Teams competition.

Something random: I am no longer caught up with laundry.

Something planned: A book club meeting to discuss Henrietta Lacks and her cells.

Something captured: This photo is from the Run for the Oaks 5K in March.  It has taken forever to get it uploaded from my temperamental phone.  The sign says iRunForFood.  I encourage you all to check out their site and see what they stand for.  I, and many other runners, am dedicating my race miles this year to the iRunForFood campaign to end world hunger.  Visit my individual page to sponsor me in my quest to run 50 race miles this year, or make a general donation.


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Apr 19 2011

Why I Hired a Running Coach and Why I Love It

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 5:36 pm

There are basically three reasons i decided to hire a running coach.

  • I have several running friends who have used a coach.  They have gotten faster; i have seen the results with my own eyes.
  • The second year i ran the Outer Banks Half, i was 8 minutes slower than the first year.  I know it was because i did not train as diligently.  But it showed me that my own motivation was not necessarily enough to improve every year.
  • I had so much darn FUN at the last Outer Banks Half!  I came off of that race with a lot of enthusiasm for running and wanting to get faster.

I also have the luxury of being able to afford it. So i contacted Coach B and we scheduled a time to meet and talk about goals, and it was a done deal.  Brennan started providing training plans for me in January.

Over the course of the training, i’ve gotten a variety of responses to the news that i have a coach.  Questions like “Does she train you in person?” “Have you ever even met her?” “What does she do for you that you can’t do on your own?”

The answers are, Yes, i have met her.  We met initially and she attends the races when possible to be supportive.  No, she doesn’t train me in person; she provides an online training plan.  She follows up each week to see how things are going, giving encouragement along the way.  Yes, in theory, i could do all this on my own.  I could research the proper training techniques on my own, the different types of track workouts, how to train for short races versus long races, and i could make up my own training plan.  Absolutely i could do that.  But i know i won’t.  So, she provides expertise that i don’t have, and the experience of someone who has done a lot of running is pretty valuable if i’m trying to improve.  The biggest thing she provides is accountability.  If i did it all on my own, and missed a few workouts, i would let myself off the hook pretty easily.  From there, it’s pretty easy to fall off the wagon entirely.  A coach provides a plan and checks in with me about that plan.  It’s enough of a motivator for me to know someone is looking over my shoulder.

I can’t argue with my results, either:

Pre-November Personal Records:
5K: 30:47 (Jan 2010)
10K: 1:03:55 (Apr 2010)
Half: 2:14:50 (Nov 2009)

After a few months of training with B?
5K: 27:45 (Mar 2011) (two minutes faster, or forty seconds per mile)
10K: 56:40 (Apr 2011) (seven minutes faster, or one min per mile)
Half: 2:06:56 (Mar 2011) (eight minutes faster, or thirty-six seconds per mile)

I absolutely love the results i have gotten, and i feel great about myself.

My current schedule with Coach B is winding down, and i am taking the summer “off” from being coached, though i still plan to run for fun.  I will pick everything back up for the fall running season.

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Apr 17 2011

Sunday Somethings, 17Apr11

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 11:59 pm

Others writing the Sunday Somethings: Kerry

Something that makes me happy: Seeing my favorite books come to life.

Something i am struggling with: With the latest poker news, life here has been interrupted a bit and our schedules are off.

Something i learned: Someone i used to be married to had a baby a few weeks ago.  Congratulations to that new family.

Some things i am doing towards my goals: We took a couple of days off of P90X over the weekend, but hope to get back into it during the week.

Something i am reading: The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks, by Rebecca Skloot

Something happening around the house: We are painting in the living room and kitchen.  We had to take everything away from the walls.  You don’t realize just how much “stuff” you have until you move it somewhere else.

Something i am thinking: Very glad we got to see Nathan & Heather while they were in the area, if only briefly.

Something i am looking forward to: Putting the house back together after the painting is all done.

Something i am hoping: I hope the painting is done before our scheduled cleaning appointment on Wednesday.  Our painting guy is a friend who doesn’t seem to be in too much of a hurry.

Something planned: Not much planned this week.  But sadly we are expecting a trip to Asheville and/or Nebraska for the funeral/memorial of a loved one.  Any day now.

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Apr 16 2011

And Now for the Latest Poker News

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 12:58 pm

“This domain name has been seized by the F.B.I. pursuant to an Arrest Warrant.” — www.pokerstars.com

Lance has been a full-time professional poker player for six years.  This has included some live play at local home games and a few casino trips, but 99% of his time has been spent playing poker online at PokerStars.com.  PokerStars is currently the largest online poker site, and Lance plays there because they have an excellent interface and top-notch customer service.

Yesterday around 2 pm, real-money games were suspended for U.S. players after news of an indictment from the Department of Justice of the top three online poker sites (PokerStars, FullTilt, UltimateBet).  The charges are bank fraud and money laundering.

The online poker community is rocked.  No one was expecting this.  The true legality of online poker has always been a little bit gray, but there has been pending legislation for the official legalization of online poker in last fall’s session of Congress (it was never voted on).  In recent weeks, the brick-and-mortar casinos began talks of lining up with the online poker sites.  All signs looked quite positive.  Until yesterday.

We’re a pro-poker household, obviously.  Poker is a game of skill, and that is how Lance is able to consistently make enough money to live on.   He has up days and down days but the long term provides a profit.  Much like investing in the stock market, the gains occur over the long-term.  Poker is a game of math and probabilistic edges.

We also have strongly libertarian leanings when it comes to personal freedoms.  Why would the government interfere in any activity where consenting adults willingly engage with each other?  Millions of people in the U.S. currently use online poker services.  Online poker is legal and regulated in many other countries.

What would regulation do for the industry?  Not to mention for the country.  Think of the tax revenues – one estimate said the online poker industry had revenues of $2.4 billion in 2005, and it has only grown in popularity since then.  Don’t we have a war to pay for?

Sometimes people ask “what about the moral issue of poker and gambling?”  To that i will reply, if it’s really a moral issue, then i expect to see the state lotteries and the horse race betting shut down.  I checked the lottery website, and it has not been seized by the government.  And that will never happen.  Despite the fact that the lottery and horse betting have no skill whatsoever, and poker is actually a skill game.  So i don’t really want to hear about the moral issue of gambling.

While some may applaud the government for taking action here, i wonder why the government was not more proactive with Wall Street during the financial meltdown.  Where was the hard line then, when the financial security of the entire nation was at risk?  Was that industry penalized at all for their elaborate heist of the American people’s money?  Was there even an investigation, or a single indictment handed down?  No.

The accusations of bank fraud and money laundering for the online poker sites are pretty bogus.  All the poker sites were trying as best they could to cooperate with existing laws.

PokerStars, FullTilt and UltimateBet are the three sites that have been indicted.  The inclusion of UltimateBet in the company of the other two is rather questionable and perhaps even sleazy.  UltimateBet is not popular, nor ever was particularly so, and is in fact avoided due to a cheating scandal that happened a few years ago.  An employee was feeding information about opponents’ hole cards to a 3rd party, and a lot of fraud was committed in this way before someone caught on.  Any online player who has been around for any length of time at all avoids UltimateBet.  However, the inclusion of UltimateBet will allow prosecutors to say “this group of sites is responsible for numerous cheating scandals and fraud” that will taint the image of the other two sites.  FullTilt and PokerStars both have excellent reputations within the poker community.

It is unclear whether legislation to officially legalize and regulate online poker will be able to be brought to the attention of Congress.  Certainly many in the poker community hope so, but there is also speculation that support will fly away from the movement in light of the indictments.

And so, it is a dark day here.  Imagine you had just been told your job did not exist.  Some people reading know exactly what the feels like.  Lance and i are trying to figure out what’s next.

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Apr 16 2011

Winter Is Coming

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 8:19 am

I haven’t mentioned this really, mainly because it has snuck up on me.  This Sunday night (tomorrow!) is the season premier of HBO’s newest series Game of Thrones.

I am uber-excited.

Why?  Well, this series is based on my favoritest series of books by my favoritest author.  Book 1 in A Song of Ice and Fire is called A Game of Thrones.  And it’s about to be brought to life!

I have seen previews and snippets of the first episode.  I have watched many cast interviews.  The cast is amazing, by the way.  Sean Bean is featured as the main protagonist, and Peter Dinklage is one of the antagonists.  Many great actors fill out the supporting roles, and almost all the press coverage from the lucky few to have seen early screenings has been positive.

The story is set in the medieval-type country of Westeros.  Seven powerful families exist in the realm.  Two of them are conjoined in marriage and hold the Iron Throne as the story begins, but power is a precarious thing.  A series of events quickly causes all kinds of shit to hit the fans.  There are lots of plots and intrigues, as well as action, war and swords.  There is sex and violence, complicated relationships.  Oh, and dragons.  (Not really.)  (Well, at least not at first…)

HBO is committed to the series, and has a unique marketing plan, including complimentary rides in Iron Throne pedicabs in NYC (pictured above).  Oh how i wish i could ride in one!

Nathan & Heather are coming to visit this weekend, and they may be forced to watch the premier with me.  I’ll probably watch it several times, and maybe even blog about each episode if i am so inclined.  And unless you are watching also, or have read the books, you can just skip those posts.  But Robert and should be able to discuss them at length.

So excited!!

HBO is trying to appeal to a large audience, not just fans of the books like me.  If you have HBO, give it a shot.  It will be good, i guarantee it.

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Apr 15 2011

P90X – Status 2

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 5:01 pm

I won’t do the day-by-day updates for you this time.  I still have my little journal, but it is less interesting because the experience is no longer “new”.

We are officially on Day 19 of this program, and we’re doing pretty well overall.  Week 2 was pretty stable.  We’re into week 3 now, and we’re still on course, though we had a rough couple of days here and there.  One day i just plain forgot to make lunches for both of us before i left for work.  I was able to get a salad for myself, but Lance didn’t eat any lunch that day, which threw him off-course a bit.  Add in some beer and a late night, and the wake-up czar did not wake us up the next morning.  But we got on track the next day.

We’re weighing ourselves weekly.  We both lost weight after the first week.  Lance lost again the second week, and i gained some back.  It was that time of the month, however, and i think that can do weird things with weight.  I definitely feel a bit leaner; we both do.  We have plenty of energy and feel good, though we do get tired earlier.

Getting up early is not as bad as it was that first week.  It’s just part of the routine.  My evil drowsy self still shouts “Snooze! Snooze!” whenever the alarm goes off, but once i’m up, i’m up.  I’m still a grouch in the mornings, while Lance is bright-eyed and bushy-tailed as soon as his eyelids pop open.  Once we walk around the neighborhood, i’m pretty much awake.

The workouts are always hard.  Lance said yesterday that it feels like it’s getting harder rather than easier.  Hopefully, with time…  Tony Horton is a cheeseball and we still laugh at his stupid jokes.  The part i love is getting to work and having already accomplished so much.

The food portion is getting a little difficult for me to maintain. It’s a constant cycle of grocery shopping every few days, food prep at least every other day.  We always have leftovers, which we make use of, but it’s still a lot of work.  Not sure what to do about that.

The biggest thing i’ve noticed is i seem to have a lot less TIME.  We have transported 2 hours from the end of the day to the beginning of the day.  Instead of 8 am – midnight , our day is 6 am – 10 pm.  And instead of doing “my” things that i would normally do during those late hours (photos, blogging, reading, web-surfing, TV), we’re doing P90X workouts with that time.  On top of that, the extra food prep time in the early evenings cuts into “my” time as well.  That’s been an adjustment, for both of us.

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Apr 14 2011

33rd Annual Cary Road Race 10K

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 6:47 pm

The Cary Road Race is by far my favorite race.  This is the third year in a row i have run it, and i will probably continue with this race for the forseeable future.  I love this race because a) it’s extremely well-run and organized, b) home base is the koka booth ampitheater which means plenty of parking and very large bathrooms, c) 8:30 start means you don’t have to get up at the buttcrack of dawn to get there, d) 6 miles is a very comfortable distance for me,  e) the course is almost entirely flat and downhill.  There is one steep hill about a third of a mile in length, which you hit twice as the course is basically running the 5K twice.

In 2009, my time was 1:04:43.  In 2010 my goal was to beat the previous time, and i was about a minute faster with 1:03:55.  I hoped that one day i would beat one hour.  This year, with my diligent training, i knew i would beat one hour and in fact set my goal at 58:30.  I really thought this would be an attainable but not “easy” goal.

Race morning was great.  I got plenty of sleep the night before, and got up at 7 to get all my gear together.  Ate a banana and got on the road.  Arrived before 8. Parking is pretty nice at this race, but i got lucky with a very close spot.  I ran in and got my race bib and timing chip, then pack to the car to deposit my loot and sweatshirt before my warmup.  It is overcast and a bit chilly, maybe 50 degrees.  As i was locking the car, i realized i didn’t have a place for my keys.  These shorts i had put on (not one of my usual pairs), had NO pockets.  Lame!  And i hadn’t brought my race belt to this race.  At first i tried tucking my keys half in and half out of the waistband of my shorts.  I’ve done that before, but i’m always very self conscious of them.  Not today – i don’t want to be worrying about keys during this race.  So, i glanced around – no one there – and put my keys on top of one of my tires, near the inside rim.  Not visible unless you are 3 years old and eye-level with the tire.  It should work.

Warmup for 15 minutes – very slow jog around the parking lots.  I have plenty of company, including a guy in a red tank top whose warmup pace looks effortless for him, and also looks faster than my real race pace.  I wonder if he is a contender to place.

Last minute pit-stop (the bathrooms are right near the start, and did i mention there are PLENTY of them so there are no lines?) and then to the start.  Brief stretching while waiting, and then we’re off!  I got a place nearish to the front, i’m guessing about 6-9 seconds from the leaders.  That’s about the only negative thing i can say about this race – no mats near the start, so the only time you get is the “gun time” instead of getting an individual “chip time”.

Mile 1: I started off reasonably for once, not too fast, not letting the people around me rush me.  Mentally i knew i shouldn’t wear myself out in the first half mile b/c i would need some energy for The Hill, which is midway through this first mile.  I’ve been dreading this hill and wondering how much it was going to wreck my time.  But it wasn’t as bad as i remembered.  It is steep for maybe a quarter-mile, and then levels off.  At the mile-marker, i heard the time-caller call out 9:30, and my watch confirmed i was 8-9 seconds behind the official clock.  9:22

Mile 2: Glad to have The Hill behind me, and glad that my time for Mile 1 was respectable, i stretched my legs a bit during the second mile.  At the turnaround, it felt good to be heading downhill again.  Grabbed a quick gulp of water, and let gravity take over to help speed me down the hill.  The cutoff to start around the lake comes at the bottom of the hill, and i nearly trip (but don’t) over my feet as i’m stepping from the road to the sidewalk.  8:48

Mile 3: Around the lake.  It’s pretty, even though it’s a bit dreary out today.  I’ve started to identify a few people who are familiar around me, and i will continue to see many of them through the rest of the race.  Kept up a good pace for the first part of this mile.  But in the second half, i checked myself, and forced myself to slow down a bit.  The Hill was coming again soon and i needed to conserve a little energy for that.  So a few people passed me, but that’s OK.  Ran past my car, glad to see it’s still there.  I heard the time-caller yell out 27:30 at the 3 mile mark.  9:22

Mile 4: Doing my mental math (so hard for me during a run), i realize that if i add about a minute for the extra .1 miles, my pace is a 28:30 5K.  That means i can do the second half in 30 minutes and still meet my 58:30 goal.  Grabbed a quick bit of water at the turnaround.  I’m pretty well hydrated, however, and it’s nice and cool today.  We see the leaders heading off around the lake, including red-shirt guy from my warmup.  The Hill actually seemed a little easier the second time, as i’m more warmed up and more in the zone.  9:34

Mile 5: It is still slightly uphill to the turnaround, but you can hardly call any of these measley hills “uphill”. After The Hill, they seem easy.  Grabbing another quick sip of water before heading back downhill.  As we break to the left to go around the lake, i realize we are nearly done, and i still feel really good.  8:55

Mile 6: Now i know i’m going to beat my goal time by a fair amount.  Around the lake i am see-sawing with some folks i have come to think of as my companions.  The path is fairly dense with my runner friends.  On the far side of the lake, we pass the ampitheater, and i see red-shirt guy standing there.  Someone asks if he won – no, he was second.  Back onto the street there is a small hill and a temptation to slow down, but i power through.  My car is still in its spot, whew!  8:36

Final .2: I never saw the 6-mile marker, but i know i’m almost done.  Breathing hard now, i go for a fast finish.  It is a long .2, though.  I pick up the pace a little more, glad for my intense training sessions b/c i am familiar with this kind of burn, and as i’m rounding the curve into the finish, i see one of my co-workers that i would never have expected to see who sees me and cheers.  Up into the finish and across the line.  1:57

Total time (by my watch): 56:40.

What a race!  I am of course ecstatic to have beaten my goal time by nearly two minutes.  A year ago i never would have expected to be able to run this distance in this amount of time.

Found my co-worker and learned his wife and son had just crossed also, so i only saw him briefly.  He was in the happiest mood i’ve ever seen – how fun to see a completely different side of someone you see every day.

Coach B told me later she had an inkling that my goal was a bit conservative.  She was very happy for me, though.  “Must be nice to PR all your races!”  It certainly is!

Results:

Place Bib  Name                          S Ag City             St Time    Pace
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  146  197 AUDREY VENTURA                F 32 RALEIGH          NC   56:49  9:09
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I even placed 4/17 among females aged 30-34!

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Apr 11 2011

Sunday Somethings, 10Apr11

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 8:45 am

Others writing the Sunday Somethings: Kerry

Something that makes me happy: Posting new personal bests!

Something i am struggling with: I’ve been cooking a lot, and the constant kitchen prep/cleanup is wearing on me.

Something tasty: Fresh pineapple.

Something i learned: The various ways to play Multi 2D (bridge convention).  I think we will unleash it in the GNT competition in Morganton at the end of the month.

Some things i am doing towards my goals: Sticking with everything right now.  P90X, running, bridge, it’s all good.

Something i am reading: The Mysterious Multi: How to Play It, How to Play Against It, by Mark Horton & Jan Van Cleef. (A bridge book.)

Something happening around the house: In a few places in the living room & kitchen, there are different paint colors.  We’re planning to paint and i need to see the different colors on the wall before i decide.

Something i am thinking: I never get these done on Sunday, it’s always a last minute Monday morning thing.  Maybe i should rename them.

Something i am looking forward to: New furniture should arrive sometime this week.

Something i am hoping: Lots of people are probably saying “oh we need the rain” but i hope it goes away soon.

Something random: A story from facebook, for those of you who may not have seen this update: After years of chasing cats out of his backyard domain, nugent finally caught one. There were 3 cats near the back fence. They like to hang out there and taunt him while he’s inside spinning in circles in his excitement to get to them. But today the cats were quarreling with one another and thus distracted. Nugent was halfway across the yard before they even saw him! One tried to dart under the fence but nugent was there, got the cat by the scruff of the neck and dragged it back into the yard. I screamed in horror as I never expected him to ever catch one! Lance beamed with pride. The cat squirmed and got away but you could tell nugent was SO proud.

Something planned: Lunch with friends which was postponed last week.

Something captured: Spring!


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Apr 05 2011

Still Alice by Lisa Genova

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 6:23 pm

I think we can all identify with the feeling of going into another room to do something, arriving in that room, and now you don’t remember what you came into the room for.  Doesn’t it feel weird?  To know that you had something in your brain, but then it vanishes?  Still Alice explores the effect that Alzheimer’s has on a woman and her family, as she experiences those lapses more and more and in more and more severe situations.

From Amazon:

…a realistic portrait of early onset Alzheimer’s disease. Alice Howland is an esteemed psychology professor at Harvard, living a comfortable life in Cambridge with her husband, John, arguing about the usual (making quality time together, their daughter’s move to L.A.) when the first symptoms of Alzheimer’s begin to emerge. First, Alice can’t find her Blackberry, then she becomes hopelessly disoriented in her own town. Alice is shocked to be diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer’s (she had suspected a brain tumor or menopause), after which her life begins steadily to unravel.

Still Alice is a wonderful yet distressing book.  Wonderful writing, wonderful portrayal of family and relationships and the day-to-day that makes up this thing called life.  Wonderful because i read it in two days – definitely a page-turner.  I said “distressing,” but that isn’t the right word; it was just a very difficult book emotionally, in my opinion.  The book is told from the perspective of Alice, who is losing her mind to early onset Alzheimer’s at the age of 50.  You’re right there, identifying with her, realizing that something is clearly wrong.

The most heartbreaking moments to me were the ones where her husband can’t deal with it.  There are several encounters they have that are just too real – Genova really nailed the intimacy between a couple that has been together for 30+ years.  They know each other so well, and yet here they are at a point where they don’t know each other at all.  It’s not because they’ve grown apart (though maybe they have a little); instead it is because she can’t remember who he is, while the woman he fell in love with is no longer there.

I cried a half dozen times at least.  Tender moments.  Angry moments.  Unfair moments.  I can get caught up in a story.  And i’m still thinking about it – it’s one of those books that had an impact on me.  That’s what makes the book “distressing”.  But it is wonderful, too.

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