Sep 29 2010

Intervention

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 12:38 pm

Lately, Lance and i have found ourselves hooked on, of all things, Intervention.

If you haven’t seen it, it’s a show that is shot documentary-style as a glance into the life of an addict.  The addictions range from drugs, gambling and shopping to food-related disorders.  The person being focused on doesn’t know that their family has contacted the show with the purpose of doing an intervention; the person just think they’re helping with a documentary.  You follow the person through a few days of their life, talk with the family members, and at the end there is an intervention.  The person can say yes or no.  So far everyone has said yes.

I first heard of this show about 2 years ago through my book club.  I tried watching it on regular TV, but didn’t really get into it.  I think now that it was because i tried watching it live and there were too many commercials to be able to get “into” it.  Now, we are streaming it from Netflix, and there are NO commercials.  It’s great, no suspense.

It’s a little bit fascinating and a little bit scary.  If i ever thought i had problems?  Nope, my life is easy.  I can’t imagine being a family member of someone who was addicted to heroin – the families go through so much pain.

One thing about the drug addicts – if the show says they are addicted to “heroin”, inevitably they are actually using everything else too, including meth and crack.  There are a lot of meth addicts shown.  I suppose there is a hierarchy of hard drugs, and the show advertises the worst one being used, but it seems that if you are addicted to meth you probably also do crack and pills.

A couple of things i have learned (i mean, i never had a reason to know any of this before).

  • One time doing heroin is enough to get you addicted.  That’s so scary.
  • There are lots of ways to ingest the same drug.
  • People who have bulimia are often extremely good at hiding it.

I’m always very proud of the families for coming together to support the person.  And i’m always happy for the person when they complete their treatment and continue to do well.  Only 44% of people who went to rehab in 2005 actually completed treatment.  Certainly some number of those relapse, which makes the success rate seem small, but some lives saved must be better than no lives saved.

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Sep 26 2010

Sunday Somethings, 26Sep10

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 2:18 pm

Others writing the Sunday Somethings: Kerry

Something that makes me happy: Snuggling with Nugent.

Something i am struggling with: A horrible cold/flu thing that snuck up on me Thursday, knocked me totally on my ass Friday, slowly receded Saturday and still lingers a bit today.

Something tasty: Mexican Lasagna.

Something i learned: I’m not totally terrible as a programmer!

Something i am reading: The Passage, by Justin Cronin.  When i requested it from the library, i was #428 on the list.  So far, it’s living up to its popularity.

Something happening around the house: Lance has totally taken care of everything around here while i’ve been under the weather.   Kitchen, laundry, making me chicken noodle soup…

Something i am thinking: The Office rules.

Something i am looking forward to: Feeling better.

Something random: In our quest to conquer all things Mario, Lance and i are now playing Super Mario Sunshine.

Something planned: A couple of bridge games and a book club meeting.

Something captured: Just hang in there, Nugent.


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Sep 23 2010

The Secret History, by Donna Tartt

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 7:18 pm

All i can really say about this book is, Myeh.

This is our book club book for November/December – obviously i’m “reading ahead”.  There was talk of changing the book, but one of our members said she definitely wanted to read it, so i assume she had some good recommendations.  Then one of my bridge friends, with whom i seem to have a similar taste in books, saw me reading it and told me it was one of her favorite books this year.

So i was disappointed when i just never really got into it.  It was not as hard to read as Special Topics in Calamity Physics, but in some ways they are similar.  The first half of the book was the most interesting part.  A college student, Richard Papen, leaves his small hometown in California and transfers to small Hampden College in Vermont.  He has taken Greek, and pursues Greek at his new school, only to learn that the Greek teacher only accepts a handful of students.  Richard wins his way into this exclusive group, and it turns out the six students have nearly all of their classes together.

At the outset, we’re told that there was a murder.  Bunny Corcoran, one of the select Greek students, dies midway through the year, murdered by his classmates.  The first half of the book is kind of a reverse murder mystery, because you know the murder is going to happen, but you don’t know how or why.  The second half of the book deals with the remaining five students and how they cope with their crime, and how they dodge the authorities.

The events that lead to the murder are bizarre.  They decide they have to do it when it becomes clear that Bunny is going to rat out four of them for another murder.  It was an accident, on a night when the four students (excluding Bunny and Richard) are out in the country performing a strange Bacchanal ritual to try to experience God.  Bunny wasn’t there, but figures it out and begins blackmailing the others.  But he has attacks of conscience, and when he confides in Richard (who has already been let into the loop by the others), it becomes clear that he will probably tell others.  In order to avoid the consequences, they arrange to get rid of Bunny.

The events after the murder are less bizarre, but not particularly interesting.  There is a lot of drinking and drugs, and people being secretive.  The group is not as harmonious as it once was, and they become suspicious of and in some cases, possessive of, each other.  This builds to another climax where one person commits suicide.

I don’t understand the suicide.  I didn’t really like or identify with any of the characters.  One of the themes of the book seems to be that life is never quite what you want it to be; things are not quite as beautiful as you want them to be.  I suppose for me, this book wasn’t as good as i wanted it to be.

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Sep 19 2010

Sunday Somethings, 19Sep10

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 9:23 pm

Others writing the Sunday Somethings: Kerry

Something that makes me happy: Seeing Nathan & Heather one last time before they move to Alaska.  Although it also makes me sad, too.  But i am so extremely excited for them that their Alaska dream is coming true.

Something i am struggling with: Bridge politics.  Starting to wonder if there is any way out.

Something tasty: The Great Stirfry Unrecipe – this is where you have chicken and a bunch of veggies and soy sauce and somehow it all turns into something good enough that Lance will even eat the leftovers.

Something i learned: You think Dan Ariely is a neat guy when you are reading his books.  And then you meeting, and you learn that yes, he is.

Something from the bridge table: A hand from the Carthage sectional tournament this weekend.

Something i am reading: The Secret History, by Donna Tartt.

Something happening around the house: We installed a sprinkler system in the back yard to water the new grass that Derrick seeded for us.  I use “sprinkler system” liberally here – what i mean is i bought one of those back-and-forth sprinklers that kids like to run through in the summertime.

Something i am thinking: Sometimes i think i am not that busy.  And then i stop to try to find time to go to an NCSU football game, and i can’t find any dates that work.  And i realize that i am actually pretty busy.

Something i am looking forward to: A lot of reading this week.  I have several books that came from the library all at once, and of course they are one-week rentals so i have got to get busy.

Something random: I was proposed to this week.  Yes, marriage.  No not real marriage.  Facebook marriage.  I don’t understand this phenomenon, but it something i see happening sometimes with my younger acquaintances.

Something planned: A good-bye lunch for a co-worker who recently got her PhD and a fancy new job.  Congrats!

Something captured: I love this photo of Nugent walking along the beach.  The colors and detail came out nice.


Sep 16 2010

Wondering about Climate Change

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 6:30 pm

This week i’m attending a conference that is being held at my work.  People who use our software have come from all over the place, and i think this conference a pretty big deal for us.  There are lots of interesting speeches and workshops happening this week.

One morning, the keynote speaker discussed climate change.  He talked about it in the context of an experiment he is doing to measure how plants respond (specifically how their carbon cycle changes) when they are subjected to consistently warmer temperatures.  Over the course of his talk he touched on the major points that indicate that climate change is indeed happening.  All these points basically confirmed what i thought everyone already knew: that climate change was a fact of life and a problem our generation and the next generation will actively need to address.

When his talk was over, there was a Q&A session.  I was rather surprised when most of the questions were not directed towards his research, but towards climate change in general.  Some questions implied that the person asking did not truly accept this whole climate change thing.  For example: “The Earth has been here for billions of years and you only have data for a very small fraction of that time.  How do you answer skeptics who claim the changing temperature is part of overall trends?”

The thing is, that sounds like a good question to me.  And though i know i watched Al Gore’s An Inconvenient Truth that helped answer this question, and though i had just listened to someone talk for an hour, i don’t really know how to answer this question.  Honestly, i don’t know very much at all about this topic at all.  Basically i know what i’m told, though i try to do due diligence on my sources when it comes to who i choose to believe.

I’m certain that most of science confirms that climate change is real (the presenter i referenced above said 97% of climatologists concur).  What i want to know is, what are the usual points raised in objection to climate change, and how does science rebut them?  Are there any good scientific reasons to be a skeptic about climate change?

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Sep 13 2010

The Unseen by Alexandra Sokoloff

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 1:03 am

The Unseen is on our book club list for October.  Since read the September book last year, i figured i would get a head start on this one.

All i really knew about the book was that was supposed to be a little bit about the paranormal.  As i got into it, it immediately became clear that the book is set nearby in Durham.  A psychology professor, Laurel MacDonald, decides to move all the way from California to start a new life after she had a dream about her world collapsing around her, and then it happens exactly as she had dreamed it.  In a brand new place, she describes North Carolina through an outsider’s eyes.  I was delighted with her descriptions of both the environment, and the people who live here (with their southern ‘charm’ in some cases).

Laurel teams up with another professor to recreate the parapsychology experiments done at Duke in the sixties to explore the possibilities of ESP.  They conduct some of the same experiments, using the student population of Duke, to find some talented individuals.  They also discover a well-buried case about a house that was haunted by a poltergeist, and set out to see if they can recreate the poltergeist effect with two students who scored well on the ESP tests.

I started reading the book when i got home on a day when Lance was out of town.  So there i was, alone in the house, and wouldn’t you know it, Laurel and her crew DO recreate the poltergeist effect.  And then i started hearing things in my own house.  It was about midnight when things started to get scary in the book, so of course i had to stay up and finish the book or else i would have never been able to sleep!

The paranormal stuff in the book was approached in a scientific way so that i could almost believe that this stuff was really possible.  The idea is this: some people have heightened abilities in the “sixth sense” area of the mind.  A poltergeist isn’t a real thing, but instead it is a physical manifestation of the anxiousness of a person or persons who have these strong mental abilities.  Especially when you get several of them together, they can create the poltergeist effect, with the sounds and weird things happening.  OK, yes, it is far-fetched but the book approaches this concept slowly and you can suspend disbelief enough to go along with it.

The book lost me at the very end though.  Suddenly, the poltergeist (which i thought was supposed to be something the students’ minds were conjuring) became a separate and malevolent spirit force that was trying to “get out” of somewhere.  And then Laurel, the professor, suddenly has strong psychic powers also, and is able to communicate on a spirit level with the young spirit-selves of the students who performed the same experiment forty years ago… It’s just too much.

I enjoyed the story and it was certainly a page-turner.  I just felt that toward the end i was no longer able to suspend my disbelief, and it left me feeling flat because of that.

There aren’t many complex themes in the book, so i’ll be interested in what we discuss at book club.  I wonder if anyone will have some ghost stories to share?

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Sep 12 2010

Sunday Somethings, 12Sep10

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 2:57 pm

Others writing the Sunday Somethings: Kerry

Something that makes me happy: Sitting on the beach, feeling the wind in my hair and the sun on my face, listening to the waves crash against the sand.  Or floating in the water while the waves gently bob me up and down.  We had truly wonderful weather this week.

Something tasty: So many tasty foods this week, but i’ll pick the Hawaiian Chicken Kabobs that Lance and i made when it was our night to cook this week.

Something i am struggling with: Getting back to a more ‘normal’ diet.  I feel like eating nothing but raw food for a week to cleanse the system.

Something i learned: A new game called Sort It Out.  I was pretty miserable at it, but it was fun and had the trivia element where you learn things as you go.

Some things i am doing towards my goals: A blog post i wrote for work was featured on the internal icompany home page on Wednesday.  Because i got so much exposure, I got a bunch of great comments too.

Something i am reading: Watership Down, by Richard Adams.

Something happening around the house: All is quiet now that the Shull family departed.  Lance and Nugent and i are all in our respective holes: Lance in his office, Nugent under the bed, and me on the couch uploading pictures.

Something i am thinking: After Watership Down, i will never look at the rabbits in our yard quite the same way.

Something i am looking forward to: Getting back to normal routine.  Vacation is all well and good but schedules are nice, too.

Something i am hoping: That this week’s board meeting for the bridge club doesn’t get too out of hand.  Who would have thought a bridge club could be that hard to manage?  Yet lately there is unrest.

Something random: I bought some pomegranates today.

Something captured: Ah, the ocean.  I have always thought of myself as a Lake Person, but after a week like this i could easily become a Beach Person instead.

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Sep 06 2010

Things I Forgot

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 4:10 pm

We’ve been at the beach for 18 hours now, and are now and then discovering the things we have forgotten, or just never knew we needed.  It’s pretty amazing just how much STUFF 11 people need to live (in comfort) for a week.  Here are the things that i personally forgot to pack.

Q-tips: I have about a 60% remembrance rate on these things.  I’m fairly miserable without them – something about dirty ears is just very distracting.  I think we’ll go to the grocery store again in a day or two, and i can get a small box.

Hand towel: Not a huge deal – other people have brought them.  But i remember thinking last year that i should bring a couple of extra hand towels to put in various bathrooms.

Dog bed: We don’t really *need* this by any means, but Nugent does love his dog bed.  We packed everything else we use, why not the dog bed?

iPod Touch USB cable & headphones: I planned to teach myself how to download apps and sync to my computer and download movies, etc.  I think i’ll be OK, because someone else here brought a Touch, so perhaps i can borrow the USB cable at least.

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Sep 06 2010

Sunday Somethings, 05Sep10

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 9:10 am

Others writing the Sunday Somethings: Kerry

Something that makes me happy: Lance came home Friday.  Nugent and i were both happy to see him.

Something i am struggling with: I need to try to get a couple of runs in this week.

Something tasty: We discovered a new, family owned place that offers Italian and Greek food.  It’s an odd combination.  The menu is primarily Italian, i guess.  They make some of the best calzones.

Something i learned: Toastmasters really does pay off when presenting in front of a big group.  I haven’t been to TM in awhile, but the practice i’ve had in the past really helped when doing my big presentation on Thursday.

Something i am reading: Ancestor by Scott Sigler.  I also have a handful of other books i will probably get through this week; reading is one of my primary beach activities.

Something happening around the house: The Shull family arrived yesterday for the annual slumber party before we take off for the beach today.  It’s fun to have a houseful.

Something i am thinking: I’m going to learn how to use my iPod Touch more efficiently this week.

Something i am looking forward to: Relaxation.

Something i am hoping: Sunny skies for at least most of the week and no red flags at the beach.  Prospects look good.

Something random: I remembered to use the post office’s Hold Mail service.

Something planned: I’d like to go parasailing this year.  I planned to last year but the weather did not cooperate.  This week we should have good enough weather.

Something captured: What i really need is a video, but here is Lance and his sister Emily competing at Wii Fit Hula Hoop.  She kicked his ass.

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Sep 01 2010

Flowers at Work

Category: Uncategorizedpodrey @ 8:21 pm

Something to brighten up this place.  And my day.

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